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Welcome 👋 brothers and sisters to this blog post where you will achieve the things that most parents do wrong and that have a significant effect on their child. If you are a parent, then prevent these things and if you are a child, then learn these things which you will prevent when you will have your kids.
In India or many other countries, it’s common to see parents decide their child’s career. If the child is smart, he should be an engineer even though many children don’t like to pursue a career in engineering but due to peer pressure, they do.
But why is this a wrong thing?
See, if the child is not interested in his career, how will he be able to perform well. Then, he would find some pleasure in giving apps and his life will go like what others want to like. Is this even a life?
No, if you survey, how many engineers like to be an engineer. You will get pretty insane results, that most engineers don’t want to be an engineer.
This has two effects:
Once, there was a retirement party for a popular doctor. The doctor was praised by everyone and was a role model for young doctors. But on the day of the retirement party, he was sitting sadly in a corner of his room. His assistant came into his room and asked him why he was sad. Then the doctor replied to him that, he didn't want to be a doctor. The assistant was shocked because the best doctor in the world was saying that he didn’t want to be a doctor. Then assistant asked him what he wanted to become. The doctor replied that he wanted to become a dancer, but his mother made him a doctor.
You would have seen that often, parents decide the life partner for their children. But why is this even wrong?
I ask you a question. What often have you listened to most parents saying to their children out of these two “don’t do this” or “Do that”?
Most of you would reply that we have listened to parents saying “Don’t do this” instead of saying “Do this”.
If you have ever ridden on a plane, you would know that when the plane starts getting through jerks, the air hostess says that “Relax” instead of saying “Don’t panic” because she has been trained in the psychology of the humans.
We ignore the
n’t in the “don’t” which sounds to our brain as “do”. This makes children do what their parents tell them not to do.
“Your child doesn’t do things you command him to do but he does what he watches you doing.”
So, if you want to make your child wake up at 5 AM. You also have to wake up at 5 AM.
But most do the opposite. They will command their child to study but they would scroll through reels on Instagram.
Today’s generation of girls is spending lots of their time scrolling through social media. This will have two impacts:
🎉🎊🎊🎉Congratulations, you are out of these dangers but you need to implement these.